Uncivil Liberty:
An Essay to Show the Injustice and Impolicy of Ruling
Woman Without Her Consent (1873)
The
independence of British American Colonies, asserted in 1776, was an
emphatic declaration of the right of' peoples to manage their own
affairs; an appeal from governments to justice, from men to man. Till
then nations were subject to enthroned power, whose will was superior
to popular dissent. Singularly enough, the managers of that
revolution, after affirming life and liberty to be inalienable
rights, proceeded to destroy life by wholesale in battle, and were so
insincere as to deny liberty to a weaker race. The same bands which
slew tyrants on Bunker Hill spread the shield of Federal law over
chattel bondage at the South, and the Union of '89 became "a
herd of States hunting slaves." Retributive justice has
emancipated and enfranchised black men, but the insincerity of the
fathers reappears in the dogma of exclusive male sovereignty, which
rules one-half of our adult citizens—the women— against their
consent. This rude resistance to the logic of events affronts the
essential principles of liberty, which inspired what self-government
is yet thought safe in private affairs, and were designed to secure,
at least, good manners in rulers.
Human
governments originated in force; in the heaviest fist, or with those
able to control the mere animal strength of the hour; the exponent of
concrete opinion, of what certain men think best to be done, with a
large infusion of fraud and violence, it now appears as emperor,
president, or pound keeper, set over prone multitudes, until they get
on two feet and acknowledge the dominion of principles. Through John
Baptist or Herod, Brutus or Caesar, Cromwell or Stuart, Lincoln or
Buchanan, the moral sense, often stifled or perverted, but never
conquered, here and there gets into creed, deed, or positive law, and
makes the epoch memorable. One evolves a truth and is reviled,
starved, or murdered outright for it; the truth survives, overrules
law and custom, and men grow famous in eulogizing what they killed
the discoverer for announcing. The king's arm being too short to
reach the circumference of his realm, he delegates his will to
subordinate executors, on whom, in turn, he is somewhat dependent.
Thus all governments, in their way, are representative, and rest on
consent; though they differ in the width of the circle in the number
of nobles taken into royal confidence. But despotism makes the will
of monarchy its ultimate appeal, while liberty, accepting as final
nothing this side of natural right, defers to popular reason, and is
served or cheated, by that democratic king, the average man, the
majority. In that marvel to monarchs, a State without a king, all
citizens are nobles in so far as they incarnate equity. Hence our
fathers, according to their luck, derived just powers of government
from consent of the governed; and, to be as good as they, we must be
enough better to apply the democratic idea impartially.
In
determining essential right we settle woman's rights, for the greater
includes the less; every political or reformatory convention is the
reappearance of government, through imperfect mediums, the people,
from its primary source, natural equity. The subtle law which
regulates movements of sovereign particles of the body politic, the
cardinal principle of civil liberty allows every one to do what she
or he will, provided they invade not the equal right of every other
one to do the same. Out of this come freedom of thought, expression
and movement; the right of association, habeas corpus, trial by jury,
all the safeguards which experience has thrown up around dissent, to
withstand invasion, and enable right to give law to intrusive fact.
Parties, majorities, state, church, all institutions are despotisms
when in conflict with incarnate truth. Legitimate civil authority may
be traced to one of two origins: lst, Enlightened reason, natural
equity. 2d, Positive legislation. Since the latter is void unless it
enact the former, valid law can have but one source, abstract right,
essential truth. Hence government, not less than liberty, must
justify its existence, and opponents of impartial suffrage should be
classed as tyrants until proved innocent. That this is a correct view
some competent exponents of thought, in different ages, may be cited
to witness. Socrates: "Whatever inconvenience ensue, nothing is
to be preferred before justice. " New Testament: "Whether
it be right to hearken unto you, more than unto God, judge ye;. . . .
.the law is fulfilled in one word, love thy neighbor as thyself."
Cicero: "If nature does not ratify law all virtues lose their
sway." Bacon: "There are in nature certain fountains of
justice, whence all civil laws are derived but as streams. "
Shakespeare: "In love the heavens themselves do guide the
state." Hampden: "What is unjust is not law, and what is
not law ought not to be obeyed." Blackstone: "No human laws
are of any validity if contrary to the law of nature; and such of
them as are valid derive all their force and authority from this
original." Kant: "Act so that the immediate motive of your
Noll may become a universal rule for all intelligent beings."
Hallam: "God forbid that we should submit our liberties to a
jury of antiquaries. " Carlyle: "One strong thing I find
here below, the just thing, the true thing; if the thing is unjust,
thou hast not succeeded." Spooner: "No one can know what
the written law is until he knows what it ought to be." Emerson:
"Law is only a memorandum; absolute right is the first
governor." Lieber: "The forbearing use of power is a sure
attribute of a gentleman." The right to rule first claimed by
brute force, then by good will, charity, finally rests in liberty,
delegated trust, consent. If principal or representative goes wrong,
integrity dissents, bides its time and wins, though the true king be
in a dungeon, and a culprit on the throne. The world will settle down
into a community of peoples when abstract right is obeyed as supreme
inter-personal, interstate, international law, and the clearest
self-interest.
From
this cursory glance at the principles which authorize legitimate
government, much now obeyed as law appears destitute of moral
justification. An old play represents Adam crossing the stage going
to be created; democracy is yet so much in embryo that its reputed
statesmen think national unity is promoted by centralized dictation,
and extol as "a republican form of government" that which
forces the allegiance of dissenting men, and dooms to political
servitude all women. But civil law being merely the creature of man,
and binding only as it enacts right, those who presume to legislate
for citizens—permanent residents of mature age and sound mind, who
contribute to the material or moral welfare of society—of either
sex or any race without power of attorney, or other definite
commission, are guilty of fraudulent usurpation, and their acts
morally void. "Taxation without representation is tyranny"
was a potent rallying cry in the struggle for a male independence,
which compels women to pay for the support of governments they had no
voice in creating. *
It is a recognized principle of democracy that persons indicted for
crime are entitled to be tried by their peers; yet women are
arrested, imprisoned and judicially murdered, by their
self-constituted masters. By constitutional decree and custom, a
majority of votes cast decide the election; in Massachusetts,
according to the census of 1865, there are 63,011 more females than
males; and, by the majority rule, the women may rightfully expel
Legislature and Governor from the State House, as usurpers. Yet these
are the fellows who set themselves up as gods, to be petitioned and
prayed to, instead of coming down on penitent knees for their
transgressions! The validity of the national war debt, the binding
force of marriage laws, chartered powers of corporations, title deeds
to property, public and private contracts are vitiated by the
all-pervading usurpation. Under existing laws only a "prostitute"
can claim her child; any married father, whether of age or not, by
will or deed may dispose of his child, "born or to be born,"
and its mother is liable to fines and imprisonment for presuming to
dispute his marital rights." A Boston woman of wealth, culture
and talent, allowed a servant to conduct her two little girls, one
two and the other five years old, to see their father, then living in
another house belonging to her; he immediately took them aboard an
Atlantic steamer, carried them to Paris, and she did not see them
again for ten years! He acted on legal advice, and the statute which
permitted the outrage is still law in most, if not all, of the
States. Recently a prominent member of the medical profession
compelled his wife to die under his own treatment, rather than be
cured, or even prescribed for by the physician of her own choice; and
government permits husbands to exercise this murderous power. One
unfit to have authority over a fly is made absolute master of his
wife; and while he could be arrested for cruelty to a horse in the
street, he may enter his house a castle to him, a prison to her—and
whip the mother of his children at pleasure. A just man blushes to
look into the statute book, so often does he find himself judged and
sentenced by the acts of his sex.
The
legal subjection of women is thought to be justified by an assumed
natural dependence on man. The old claim of tyranny, "The king
can do no wrong, is reasserted by that many-headed monster, the
majority, which widens the circle of despotism, but retains the fact.
As people were to the king, so woman is now an appendage of man, who
claims to be her "head," though nature seems not to have
limited heads to the exclusive possession of either sex. That there
is no natural feeling of dependence, on one hand, or of superiority
on the other, is evident to the most casual observer of spontaneous
dealings of the sexes. in practical sense and force a girl of
fourteen is often ten years older than a boy of the same age; tells
him how to act and protects him from the big boys at school. A widow
lady who maintains herself and daughter and lays up money by keeping
a half-dozen families in clean clothes, rejoices that she has no man
on her hands to support. Her next door neighbor, who sold, one day,
forty cents' worth of her husband's service for two pounds of beef,
said, that for another piece as large she would part with him
entirely. At a court ball in Berlin, Bismarck, much pleased with the
wife of a foreign diplomat present, with characteristic audacity,
reached out to pluck a flower from the bouquet she carried; rapping
his knuckles with her fan she said: "Pardon, Mr. Count, but that
flower is not a German State; you must ask for it." Man
instinctively defers to woman until poverty, marriage or
ungentlemanly arrogance subjects her to his dictation. Popular
reverence for her person forbids public laying on of hands to correct
her, and private insolence dares not until she is under his legal
thumb. She is a stronger body guard to man in a mob than a battalion
of soldiers, and the sanctity of her person is the only barrier the
savage atrocities of war never quite overleap. A body, ears, eyes,
nose, taste, touch, sensitive to beauty of thought, color, sound; all
requisites to admit men to the realm of sense, and a knowledge of
material things, woman has; while, in intuition, the income of
spiritual wealth, she is admitted to excel man. By what authority,
then, is she required to look up to him for guidance, while he looks
to Infinite Truth as the source of right and duty? The ruling class
rarely yield a privilege until whipped out of it; so man now
legislates with his fist rather than his conscience, robs his "better
half" of all the ballot, simply because he is physically the
strongest. To compel her to obey father before marriage, husband
afterward, then her eldest son, may be consistent with Mormonism,
which aspires to build an empire on Isaiah's prophecy that in the
last days seven women shall cling to one man, and honors as "the
wisest man" a patriarch who had seven hundred wives and three
hundred concubines; it may be suited to a theology which makes man
lord of creation and woman an afterthought, designates boys as the
"sons of God" and girls as the "daughters of men,"
and paves hell, not in good intentions even, but with "infants'
skulls not a span long"; it may be agreeable to her position in
a Turkish harem, a Chinese palace, on a blazing funeral pile of a
Hindoo husband, or in the hotter fires of a Boston brothel, but it is
quite repulsive to the free ideas which transformed the dark realms
of the American Indian into a constellation of powerful States.
The
protesting indignation of some women who had the honor to be, at
least, rebellious slaves, widespread and increasing unrest broke out
in the first formal declaration of independence, issued in 1848, from
Seneca Falls, N. Y., by Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucretia Mott, and
others. It enumerated grievances equal in number and seriousness to
those set down in the famous manifesto of '76, and is destined to
work a more extended and beneficent revolution. Current objections to
woman's enfranchisement can hardly be accounted for, except on the
supposition that the sexes, even husbands and wives, are not yet
personally acquainted with each other or truth. justice unites
persons widely remote; injustice separates infinitely those standing
side by side. Men reputed to know something of the nature of liberty,
so-called radicals who have ceased to represent the moral sense, or
even the intelligence of the hour, talk flippantly of "universal
suffrage" while shutting out one-half of human-kind. A wit
believed in universal salvation, provided he could pick the men; so
perhaps these recreant "radicals" will conquer their
prejudices against impartial suffrage, when assured the new comers
will vote their party ticket. The right of man to political freedom
appears in the fact that he is a sentient being, capable of reason
and choice, looking before and after. To rule adult citizens against
their will is tyranny; women are adult citizens, hence those who deny
them the ballot are tyrants. A dozen years ago or more, the writer,
with other specimens of sophomoric assurance, one morning at
breakfast, questioned the propriety of Lucy Stone's refusal to pay
taxes, allowing her furniture to be sold in preference; the combined,
college-learned, male wisdom thinking it a great ado about a small
matter. A lady opposite, who first called his attention practically
to peace and anti-slavery reform, flung over the table, "No
taxation without representation. Did you ever hear of Sam. Adams and
John Hampden?" It was the first and last argument he ever
attempted to make against woman's suffrage. To justify himself, her
oppressor must class her psychologically with brutes, deny her a
soul, prove either that she has no functions equal with man, or that
she is incapable of exercising them—neither of which can be done.
Boys who toss their empty heads at this reform, use freely that
epithet which reveals so much contempt for the human
understanding—"strong-minded." Men are thought to
personate reason, and women sentiment; but generally male objectors
to this claim are noted for nothing more than their plentiful lack of
logic and superabundance of mulish prejudice. Notwithstanding these
disparaging exceptions, men yield to reason; and, at no distant day,
physical strength will rally under the banner of moral beauty.
Whether
suffrage is a right or privilege, natural or conventional, its denial
to woman is equally indefensible. Minors become of age, slaves are
emancipated, lunatics regain reason, idiots are endowed with
intelligence, criminals are pardoned, traitors amnestied,
disfranchised males of every class shed their disabilities and are
restored to liberty; but the fact of sex—the crime of
womanhood—dooms one to perpetual vassalage! Not the ability to
drink, chew, smoke, lie, steal and swear, votes— though election
day too often indicates these vices to be important conditions of
membership in the male body politic—but intellect, conscience,
character, are supposed to vote; and the boy proudly becoming a man
before his mother," is crowned a sovereign at twenty-one,
because in thought and discretion he ceases to crawl as an animal,
and stands an upright intelligence. Is she who endowed him with these
royal qualities less capable of exercising them? if the admission fee
to franchise is not age, but property, why are poor men received and
rich women excluded? If the door swings open to integrity and
courage, why are these turned away in women while their absence is
welcomed in men? Simply because this booted, spurred and whiskered
thing called government is a usurpation, and men choose to have it
so. Since, then, custom not reason, fraud not justice, prejudice not
good sense, object, this is a question not for argument, but for
affirmation. Those who acknowledge the validity of existing
government, by increasing its numerical power, not merely drop a
stitch in their logic, but surrender the flag of impartial suffrage
to its enemies. The Negro certainly has quite as good a right to vote
as his late masters. If ignorant, they made it a penal offence to
teach him to read; if poor, they robbed him of his earnings by law.
But who are Negro men and Chinese that we should confer irresponsible
power on them? To admit any man, be he black, red, yellow, or a
minor—our curled, white darling just come of age—to the
franchise, who is not pledged to share it with women, is treason to
liberty, a desertion of the logical duty of the hour.
A cruel
kindness, thought to be friendly regard, assumes to "protect"
those who, by divine right of rational being, are entitled, at least,
to be let alone. We are not among wild beasts; from whom, then, does
woman need protection? From her protectors. While making marriage
almost her only possible means of permanent subsistence, and working
for a living unpopular, custom forbids her to "propose," to
seek a husband; hence this vicarious theory of government owes her,
what Socrates claimed for himself, a support at the public expense.
If in the old law phrase, "the husband and wife are one person,
and he that one"; if, married or unmarried, her personality is
buried in his, man should also embody her responsibility—be taxed
for her food, clothing, leisure, pleasure, and punished for her sins.
But, in practice, he does not recognize this obliging doctrine; for,
while reserving the hottest corner of his future hell for her, in
this life his responsibility ends with the gratification of his
personal desires, and she is "abandoned"—thrown upon the
tender mercies of public censure and charity. If there is banging to
be done, it is her head which goes through the noose; if imprisonment
is decreed her body is locked up; if starvation ensues, she perishes,
while he lives on fat, and free to protect new victims of this loving
kindness. If she is to be restrained, can one inferior in rectitude
and continence be her keeper? it is said that beauty leans on
strength; that Venus rides on a lion, now as in the old fable; but
evidently the protector will despoil, unless she is armed with
self-supporting and self-defending weapons.
We form
societies to prevent cruelty to dumb animals, but horses and dogs are
better fed and lodged, in our cities, than thousands of working
women. Instead of the scythe, in the primer, we should now have the
skeleton figure of Death sewing shirts. The following cases, taken at
random from numberless facts reported and unreported by the press,
sadly illustrate the inevitable result of denying women direct access
to the sources of life and liberty:
Last
evening a girl, apparently about seventeen or eighteen years of age,
committed suicide by leaping into the North river from the ferry-boat
James Watt. She wore a plain silk dress, with a plaid shawl and hood.
For some time after the boat left the Hoboken side, she walked to and
fro in the cabin, deeply agitated. Finally she sat down beside a
lady, and said the cabin was very close; to another she made a
similar remark, and said she had been to Hoboken to mail a letter to
her friends in Germany. Greatly excited, when the boat reached the
middle of the river, she rushed out, leaped over the chains, and
disappeared in the water. Her body was not recovered.—N. Y. Evening
Post.
The
other day an interesting child, for she was really no more, went into
the Workingwomen's Home, Franklin street, when the following dialogue
occurred between her and one of the superintendents: "What is
your name?" "Mary Thomson." How old are you?"
"Nearly sixteen." "Where do you live?" "With
my mother, in Eldridge street." "What can we do for you?"
"Get me some work, please." "Where have you been
working?" (Hesitatingly). "In a concert saloon."
"Where?" "Corner of Chatham street and Bowery."
"That's it eh? Why did you leave it?" "Well, you see,
I got into a row there. Two men came in one night, and I heard them
say they were going to rob a young man who was kind to me, when I
told them I wouldn't let them: then, for spite, they said I stole
money from them. I was taken to the Toombs, and the judge after
discharging me, sent me here for work." "Where were you
before going to the saloon?" "In a factory." "Why
did you leave it?" "Because I only got $3 a week; my sister
got the same, but it wasn't enough to support us, and we could make a
great deal more as waiter girls." "How much were you paid
at the saloon?" "Three dollars a week, and what we could
make." "What do you mean by 'what you can make"? "Well
you see, ma'am, we are allowed five cents on every drink, and then
the young men treat us, and when they give us a dollar, if they are
spunky and decent, they will not take back the change; besides, we
get lots of jewelry, brooches, ear-rings, &c." "How
much did you make a week?" "From $15 to $18, according to
trade; if it was good we'd go up to $20, then down to $10. "But
isn't it wicked?" (Hanging down her head). "I suppose so,
ma'am; but it is hard to be hungry. " "Would you like to
leave the saloon?" "Yes, if I can make a living and help my
poor mother. " She was sent to work where she could make from $3
to $4 a week. Nothing has been heard of her since. Poor Mary! she is
a good subject for some of the pity and philanthropy now going round
loose in John Allen's quarters.—New York Sun.
One
result of the religious meetings held in the dance-halls of that
famous locality, was the awakening of wayward ones by the
exhortations and prayers of the warm-hearted missionary. As the
penitent girls stood around him in tears, ready to earn their living
by better means, if permitted, he did not know what to do with his
converts, who though fit for Heaven were thought unfit for society in
this world, and he was obliged to confess that the religion he
represented had no salvation for them here; that the boasted
Christianity of the great metropolis had not heart, wit or money
enough to open a way of escape from their fearful surroundings. When
the women of Lyons took to suicide in great numbers, and "from
no apparent cause," it was checked, as a similar mania before by
the Roman Senate, by an order that the bodies of all who drowned
themselves should be publicly exposed in the market place, naked.
Thus was even the right to die denied by rude legislators, who
thought to cure the evil, not by making life more attractive, but
death more repulsive. The Welsh girl, Hester Vaughn, comes to our
country in quest of relatives and work. Betrayed by a trusted
protector she seeks a shelter in the solitude of the great city of
brotherly love. In a lone garret in mid winter, without fire, food or
friend, she gives birth to the man's child, which is found dead when
she revives from the terror and agony of nearly three days' labor.
Government comes not to relieve and amend, but to damn its victim to
darker infamy. Execrated or ignored by self-righteous public opinion,
she is arrested—tried—her last dollar taken by a lawyer for
defence not made and sentenced to be hanged. After many months'
imprisonment she is pardoned by the Governor of Pennsylvania, only on
condition that she will leave the country! Her "protector"
is at large and votes for that Governor's re-election. In a city,
known as the "heart" of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts,
a young woman of intelligence, beauty, refinement, with a father,
husband, brothers, uncles, able to provide material support, but
unable to perceive that unliberated and unemployed energies are
self-destructive, brought back to a life she loathed, and endeavored
to destroy once by laudanum, walks out to the railway depot, flings
herself under the wheels of a moving freight-train and is killed
instantly. Like the slave-holder's jury of inquest over the body of a
murdered Negro, who concluded he "died of the will of God or
some other disease, " the coroner's verdict in this case was
that she came to her death by "temporary mental aberration."
Well may women assail the constituted order which assumes to
restrain, rule, judge and condemn her without a hearing; for while
this vicarious guardianship, with man, is conveniently impossible, to
her it is a disastrous cheat. For her the prison, the scaffold, the
brothel and the street; but not for her the emoluments of office, the
golden prizes of business, or even a chance for an honest existence.
The
drift of our social relations is from status to contract, from
accepting life at second-hand to an original acquaintance with its
sources. While the slave becomes citizen, and the hireling of an
owner, it is a poor commentary on man's gallantry and good sense that
she, whom he loves beyond all other beings incarnate, should be the
last instead of the first object of this ameliorating law. The most
significant spectacle of modern civilization is the trial of
institutions in the court of reason, the liberation of intellect,
from much which has been "bowed down to as the intention of
nature and the ordinance of God. " Personality, the origin and
mainspring of reform, the point where renewing life enters decaying
fact, is the germ of that wilderness of pronoun I's we call society,
which was made for man, not man for it. When viewed from elevated
points, the prominent outlooks of history, the human race, in all
ages and nations, will be seen to have steadily obeyed an onward beat
of things. Growth brings diversity, thinking, isms, which are to be
welcomed rather than deplored, when exposed to criticism, to that
prophet and law-giver of the world, free inquiry. No sensible tree
rests its reputation on last year's foliage, but greets each spring
with new life. That power, behind which the party of rest so often
encamp—custom—favors growth, not sterility; for the tendency to
advocate, the law of progress, is the perennial and overruling force
of human society. Nothing is so revolutionary and convulsive, as the
strain to keep things where they are, in opposition to expanding
tendencies. The established government is a criticism, an amendment
of a former, itself again to be revised or displaced by a larger
thought. The form is less than what informs it, the temple than the
deity enshrined. A violet or a cedar of Lebanon, serf, sovereign,
individual being everywhere has its declaration of independence, its
claim to life and scope. The all-animating impulse now bids woman
"mix with action lest she wither by despair." More willing
to incur responsibilities than to fulfill them, too much of man's
self-government has been an effort to govern everybody except
himself. The case of Sickles and Key, of Cole and Hiscox, of
McFarland and Richardson, all such outbreaking evidence of the latent
tragedy of domestic life, is justified on the theory of woman's
incompetency to decide for herself. The husband as hereditary ruler,
allowing no interference with his divine right to "protect,"
is self-constituted judge, jury and executioner to inflict death on
any one disposed to befriend her.
Marriage
is not a free civil contract, cognizant of mutually grave moral
responsibilities as it should be, but a consolidated union, of which
man as proposer and disposer, is supreme law. Boys are "bound
out" till twenty-one; girls are bound in for life. The Negro was
just whose cuffy he happened to be; the wife is just whose birdie or
drudge she happens to be. As masters quoted law and gospel over their
slaves, so husbands emphasize their claim to wedded chattels. There
is not one word in all these objections to woman's suffrage but would
justify slavery or imperialism. We must therefore grant her claim, or
turn our portraits of Washington and Adams to the wall, level Bunker
Hill monument into the harbor, haul down the democratic republican
flag and go back under king and pope. In punishing her we admit she
has a moral sense to be convinced or coerced; but while conceding her
the right to be hanged, we yet hold that men, eligible to the State
prison and the gallows, are also eligible to Congress. Not the
family, but the citizen is the social unit; for both politics and
religion make individual moral being a law unto itself Because woman
is a citizen, not by the courtesy of man, but by the will of God, the
fact of existence, all offensive institutions and personalities are
now on trial before this fair judge.
Having
shown the injustice of ruling woman without her consent, its impolicy
is apparent; for what is morally wrong cannot be practically right,
or innocently approved. If she has a soul, if she is a party to be
consulted, her legal self-responsible equality cannot be denied, for
there is no middle ground between chatteldom and freedom. The change
proposed, the recognition of one half the race, hitherto ignored, is
indeed momentous, though dreadful only to those who fear to do right,
and trust the consequences—but forget its disastrous alternative.
"The worst thing that can befall one guilty of sin, is not to be
punished for it"; mindful of this fact, nature ordains her laws,
more honored in the breach than the observance, to be self-executing;
every evil from a civil war to a bruised finger warns us not to do so
again. Enforced bondage of blacks at the South sent death to Northern
homes, and those who mobbed abolitionists, by the unseen omnipotence
of an idea, were hurled in embattled legions against slaveholders in
the tune of "glory hallelujah. " In the aberration of moral
as of physical laws we get a clue to the true normal course. The
festive growth of crime in those savage wilds called cities; the
tragic life of women, and deadly collision of man with man; the
widespread harvest of disease, deformity, insanity, degeneracy; the
increasing prevalence of sexual evils before which statesmanship is
baffled, religion powerless, and science dumb—these retributive
results are the kindest answer nature can give to a practice which
disowns divinity in its fairest human form. In the prevailing
ignorance of what true affectional intercourse is, and the studied
avoidance of domestic ethics both by scholars and moralists, suffrage
is, of course, but the initiative, the beginning of wisdom. Women
should not be too solicitous about men's sins, for they have plenty
of their own to answer for. The angels we hear so much about, like
men, eat, drink and catch cold, and like men, in an emergency, will
lie and steal. Appealing from women to woman we aim to establish a
principle, not especially to vindicate persons, and merely assert her
right to opportunity and fair dealing; angel or fiend, she is
entitled to work out her own salvation, to be and to do as well as to
suffer.
Present
practice defeats the policy it is intended to serve. To those who
think women should be perpetually watched and taken care of we
commend the following specimen fruit of their oriental theory fresh
from China, and described in the San Francisco Bulletin:
A
remarkable spectacle was the landing of the women and girls, of whom
there were two hundred and forty on board. It was like landing a
drove of sheep or cows. At all points of the compass were men to
drive them, and they came off the boat in squads of fifteen or twenty
each. The policemen and Chinese "bosses" kept each squad
together and drove the entire crowd into a corner under a shed, where
they stood watched as closely as ever was guarded a gang of slaves in
the South. If a Chinawoman, resident here, approached too near, she
was seized and pushed away; and if any of the new comers left the
crowd, she was driven back, or seized by the back of the neck and
shoved to her place again. Most of those who come are young girls,
many not over twelve or fifteen years of age, and nine-tenths, at
least, for purposes of prostitution. Into seven or eight cars,
reserved to transport them to the Chinese quarters, these creatures
were driven in squads and hauled to a point on Jackson street. The
women then ran the gauntlet again. The alley, which is one of the
narrowest and filthiest in the city, was lined with Chinamen and
women, as the strangers were driven through it, up some old rickety
steps into the Dupont street theatre, and in the pit of that wretched
place were again herded. Here they were assorted, marked over, and
sent to the "six companies" to which they were consigned.
Men have
had chief control of the world thus far, and of the results they have
not much reason to be proud. For those who decline, or are denied
monogamous marriage, politics, theology, science, literature,
philosophy, public opinion, all the social intelligence of which
history brings us an account, has evolved but three methods of
solving the woman question—chattel and capital bondage, polygamy,
and prostitution. Men are so much better than their laws, free
instincts so often interpose to relieve victims of the "assembled
wisdom," which, from State House and Congress, imposes its
authoritative ignorance upon us, that many escape these sad results.
But, judged by the law, and life which come out of this
man-the-head-of-woman theory, it were a compliment to the male
managers thereof to think society has yet no bead at all. Milton
being asked why a king is sometimes allowed to take his place on a
throne at fourteen but not to marry until he is eighteen, replied:
"Because it is easier to govern a kingdom than a woman."
The poor figure men make, under the present regime, is the result not
so much of incapacity as of attempting the impossible.
The
imposing deference which, while it affects to regard woman as the
pride and ornament of creation, degrades her to a toy, a cipher,
fears natural order will not keep its footing, if she is allowed to
go at large without keepers. But will the skeptic behind that
objection please explain to us the nature of the tie which now joins,
or may join him to the woman called wife? If it is force, who gave
him authority to wield it! If it is fraud, the officers of justice
should lay hands on him. If it is poverty, by what process did this
once fascinating being, capable of' infinite endeavor, become a
menial in his service, dependent at his board? Is it not rather the
memory of equality, of the hour when he, a glad suppliant, courted
her, a free intelligence, able to accept or reject his proposals?
Surrendering virgin liberty she entered his legal cage; the blooming
maiden, "quickly scorned when not adored," is now the worn
and faded wife, in the back-yard of his affections; and real respect
for her has declined, just in proportion as she has lost the power of
choice, and the control of her person. There may be men who, seeking
a parlor ornament, or a subservient mistress, prefer languid
helplessness to original strength in a wife; but the case of him who
married the one he did, because she was the only girl in town he was
not sure of before proposing, well indicates how much continent
deference of the husband on the one hand, and free existence of the
wife on the other, depend on her power to decline or even defy his
advances. As one would rather be called a knave than a fool, so men
respect woman's wickedness more than her weakness; the thorn and the
bramble more than dependent vines wedded to masculine oaks. The pope
said, "If we allow the right of private judgment, Protestantism
may win, but Christendom will be split into sects;" Luther took
the risk, and co-extensive with the prevalence of this dissolving
progress of thought, the right to differ, has the believer become a
law unto himself, more religious than the church. The most impressive
admonition which comes to us from Jesus is, "Why even of
yourselves judge ye not what is right?" The elements of order
are: lst, justice; 2d, liberty; 3d, union to repel invasion of these
in any person, and which especially pledges the whole force of
society to defend woman's right to decline male advances. There can
be no union except between units; without keeping wedded ones always
on their good behavior, as during courtship. Constantly acknowledged
twoness is indispensable to coincident oneness. In urging the
political question, woman brings not mere avoirdupois weight, but
living mind, to be admitted to citizenship. Her enfranchisement will
prove the advent of reason and conscience to politics, obedience to
"law whose throne is in the bosom Of God, and whose voice is the
harmony of the world." The prejudice against her fulfilling any
function which makes her an independent, thoughtful, self-sustaining
being is excited by narrow and despotic selfishness. We have created
antagonism by establishing a privileged male class.
Painful
results of this effort to make two lives serve one erring will, may
be seen in family quarrels, which are nature's protest against
enforced coincidence. Instead of agreement, mutual deference and
concord in the home, the heart's country," we too often find
hatred, conflict and chronic anarchy. These are thought to be the
fault of one or both of the parties concerned, as indeed they often
are, thought they generally spring from deeper causes—from coerced
allegiance, ill-defined rights and duties. A Frenchman, though
married, was accustomed to spend his evenings with a certain maiden
lady; when his wife died, being asked why he did not marry the other,
he replied that "if he did, he should not have anywhere to spend
his evenings." It was remarked of another "he loved her so
that one never would have thought she was his wife. " An
American woman brought into court, charged with pouring a pail of
boiling water over a man, defended herself on the ground that she
supposed it was her husband. An English wife paints her once loved
lord, the courtly Bulwer, with "the head of a goat and the body
of a grasshopper." Such eccentric instances are not entirely
untruthful satire of the alienation which "wedded bliss"
promotes when parties thereto are not free and equal factors.
Approaching her before marriage with requests, afterward with
commands, the lover, kneeling to an adored maid, will swear himself
incapable of one of the thousand hurts he may not hesitate to inflict
on her as wife. As we do not find two hills without a hollow between
them, so two intelligent beings, however, loving, cannot abide
together in healthful peace unless the separate, intact liberty of
each is perpetually held inviolate. To commit one's self beyond
recall to a finite being, for any purpose whatever, makes unitary
concord impossible and undesirable. A clear-headed business man says:
"The chief cause of matrimonial inharmony is in the fatal error
that parties recognized in law as capable of making a contract are
not also thought capable of dissolving that contract. " Forced
consent annihilates existing love and makes its revival impossible.
Those who think liberty so dangerous an element in love would do well
to, at least, imagine how the simplest affairs could proceed on the
grab game their frenzied conservatism adheres to. The methods of
chance, fraud and deceit, which now determine the most sacred and
eventful experiences of life, would be deemed evidence of insanity if
proposed as the basis of business partnership. Science, which
respects aspiring insects, traverses infinite space, makes
pilgrimages to the Arctic, the Amazon, the Alps and Adirondacks,
studies breed in birds and herds, will ere long find it worth while
to wait on women and men, and explore those dark places of the
world—the kitchen, the bed-chamber, and the nursery. Matrimonial
bureaus and newspaper personals, used for purposes shameful enough;
the great relief a careful father feels when a daughter is well
married off his hands; the scientific matchmaking; the deep-laid
plans of those skillful love-brokers, mothers and maiden aunts—these
indicate that business, not affection, is at the bottom of much of
this romance, and make it all the more imperative on legislators to
see to it that woman, in going inside the castle of law, is not
disarmed and bound.
It
is thought that politics will unsex her, that she will "lose her
tender little ways and bashful modesties, and the bloom be rubbed off
every enjoyment." This is but the revival of an old cry of
tyrants, now masquerading as republicans and democrats, that the
people are incapable of self-government. As an exhausted receiver
defines the sphere of a rabbit suffocated under it, so imprisoning
conditions within which the ages have bound woman limit her natural
right to life. While men's functions and opportunities are of their
own choice, women's are forced on them by circumstances. Man's duties
and avocations send the soul outward; woman must always stay at home
with her heart. What right has one adult citizen to forcibly
determine the status of another? The sphere of a slave is the circle
described by his driver's lash; the sphere of woman free is the realm
of her heart fills, the range and height of her faculty. The ability
of one marks the present sphere of that one, but leaves all space
this side of God to enlarge upon. It is said that woman cannot engage
in politics, or other business, because she must marry; but she is
compelled to unpaid toil of many kinds, beside child-bearing, if
married. Will it require more effort to go to the town hall twice
than it does to attend church fifty-two times a year. Politics are
merely a matter of business, the ways and means to certain ends.
Principle is the what, policy is the how of affairs. The Queen of
England is conceded to be, in the gentler traits, a model of her sex,
though she rules an empire which encircles the globe; will our queen
of hearts be less a woman when dropping a piece of paper into a box?
Women in Congress, at salaries of $5,000 a year, could hardly be more
damaged or damaging than as waiter girls or mistresses of those
august legislators. If politics are vicious, it is high time they
were cured, for "sound policy always coincides with substantial
justice. " The plea that women will be rudely treated by men at
the polls, so far as it has any weight, only proves that male
ruffians should be disfranchised; but this "chivalry objection
comes about two centuries too late, for the courtesy of men has
increased as the freedom of women has been accorded." If men are
so bad they cannot be trusted to vote with women ought they to vote
for women? Those accustomed to govern in schools, able to teach more
than males can learn, will not consent to be life-long vassals of
boys they educate. The mother of nine children, successfully raised
and started in life, why prefer a whiff of cigar smoke to her for
President? Government is a bloody, barbarous thing, chiefly because
it ignores ethics of which woman is the clearer and most steadfast
exponent.
"For
contemplation he and valor formed; For softness she and sweet
attractive grace. He for God only; she for God and him"—
was a
poet's idea, which Paul put in this presuming way: "Neither was
the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man." It is
because we have thus stepped between conscience and God, severed the
moral law of gravitation which binds finite sovereignties to the
creative centre, that our social astronomy is so sadly distracted. If
the heavenly bodies are viewed as revolving around the earth, their
movements appear chaotic and inexplicable; but when you reckon from
the sun as center, the watch in your pocket may be timed and
regulated by their exact and wondrous whirl through space. Whoso
makes woman a satellite of himself is behind Copernicus in practical
science; if he quote Bibles, let him listen to Jesus, who applauded a
woman for not attending to housekeeping. If his dinner is uncooked,
and his home deserted, it may be a divine voice which beckons her
forth, and sordid avarice which bids her stay and grind in the
prisonhouse of his selfism. By whose decree is one immortal being
insphered within, and made a martyr to the private interest of
another? We have no fears that, dowered with liberty, she will be
less feminine, for nothing unwomanly can prevail among women. More
respected in a shop or counting-room than in the kitchen, a girl
acquires character and self-control in proportion as her sphere
enlarges. The magnetic, thrilling touch, graceful form and movement,
this animated beauty and use has laws, tendencies, and a career of
its own. Superstitious bats may denounce the rising sun as a reform
against nature," for night is their day; but rose and violet
welcome light and are adorned in its redeeming presence. Woman, "as
God made her," we wait to see, having already too much of the
man made woman. Her artificial, superinduced, enervated nature may
disappear, but nature's nature will revive and prevail.
A
gentle bachelor fears conscriptions of war may invade his peace if
women vote, and that our fair rulers may draft for husbands. Fatally
married, the wife controls one-third of his property, while he loses
claim to any share in hers. He can deed nothing away without her
signature, and has no use of her credit at the store, while she can
buy heavily on his account, and law compels him to pay the uttermost.
Withdrawing from his lordship's imperial nothingness she may levy
perpetual alimony on him for a living, while he must delve to earn
it, and count himself lucky to be rid of her at that. A gay creature,
blushing behind her fan, outwits an elegant fop in lavender kids, who
thinks all the girls dying to marry him, ensnares him in an
engagement, provokes him to break it, and, in damages for breach of
promise, carries off the bulk of his fortune. If this be his fate
now, who can protect him when the "suppressed sex" are
free, and he is obliged to risk his charms in an open market? Armed
with jealousy and cunning, in the absence of better weapons of
defence, ignorant, frivolous, exacting, woman now often drags man
down; her subjected condition being fruitful in vices of artifice and
power, of unnatural dependence, and imperious self-assertion, the
aggressor, as usual, suffers most. Imbruted mind is the reflex result
of the exercise of arbitrary power, and those who trample on the weak
are the first to cringe to the strong. None but base natures assume
to rule equals, or domineer over inferiors. We must count it,
therefore, the first and chief of man's rights to undo, without
asking, this injustice to woman; for in so far as he deprives her of
vigor and scope does he maim himself. Alas! that any man can wish
women perishing in luxurious inactivity, wedded to vice or
imbecility, impaled on a needle, or starving in a garret, to be
contented! Doubtless many superiors to Elizabeth Browning, Margaret
Fuller, Charlotte Bronte, and George Sand are buried under our
household, sewing shop, fashionable and factory life. England has one
Stuart Mill, American one Emerson, but it were unlucky to have two;
for why should nature be so given out as to repeat herself? In
requiring woman to be the shadow, or echo of man, we mar creative
intention, and rob society of the better service which intuitive
sense waits to render. The value of self-supporting independence
doubtless suggested the remark of a wit—"A wife is a fortune
when she is poor." As the adjective is said to be the greatest
enemy of noun, though agreeing with it in gender, number and person,
so woman is an adjective, an appendage of man, is useless or worse to
him, and a mockery to herself, having an inalienable right to be a
noun, a person accountable to infinite intelligence. Since in
correcting wrong we enact right, men's actual influence will not only
not be lessened, but vastly increased, by abolishing the despotic and
irresponsible power they now wield. If authority is natural and
beneficent, the votes of a world united cannot overthrow it; if it is
usurped, the quicker it falls the better.
Fascinating
weakness, "sweet irresponsibility," becomes a nullity, or
hostile, when allegiance is forced, and suggests truth in an old
maxim, "As many slaves, so many enemies." Since we offer a
premium to adverse influence, practical sense and persuasive
eloquence are turned against us; "measures which statesmen have
meditated a whole year may be overturned by women in a day," and
often have they conquered a nation by simply making up faces. The
victims of false deference on one hand and tyrannical subjection on
the other, they win through diplomatic artifice, or by sacrifices
inconsistent with personal sanctity and social well-being. Impulses,
which rightly directed would outflow in tenderness and rectitude,
invigorate, adorn and bless mankind, now take the sexes to houses of
assignation, and the very materials with which perfect society will
be constructed, when the builder arrives, are added fuel to flaming
heats our ignorance kindles. The "social evil," which
despairing philanthropy says "no law can restrain and no power
suppress," is a vast business system of supply and demand, whose
natural causes and retributive results point outcasts and outeasters
to the ways of healthful sanity. Not to quote Solomon and Samson, the
reputed wisest and strongest of men, both of whom were conquered by
women, why in Europe and America to-day are men of genius, writers,
statesmen and reformers, involved in family feuds, tenants of
desolate homes, wanderers from what should be domestic quiet, or
indulging in practices they dare not defend as right? These things
cannot be dismissed with a sneer, or religiously attributed to the
Prince of Evil; for the devil is only unexplained adversity, and may
yet turn out to be the Deity in disguise. The old theory of natural
depravity and vicarious atonement will no longer serve to darken
counsel with words; for the instincts and attractions God made are
not essentially unclean. Conjugal law, which in all ages and nations
has "confined woman to one man, has never confined man to one
woman." Virtuous Congressmen, who urge war on Mormon
polygamists, should first face domestic problems at home, whose
solution will require clearer heads and braver hearts than have yet
appeared. In Utah husbands are responsible for their wives, required
by law, at least, to provide them bread. In Boston and New York men
are quite as much married, though in a clandestine and unscrupulous
way. Spectacled hookworms may explore traditions of the past, grave
divines declaim against laxity of morals, conceited stoics affect to
be superior to fascination, but the fact remains that woman,
incarnating love, has ruled and will rule man, for better for worse,
just in proportion as she is assured or denied a right to herself.
Not responsible to law, because unrecognized by it, she is now driven
to secure recognition of her existence by depravity or rebellion. If
frivolous or perverse, it is the result of false conditions; for
nature has a seriously honest intent in creating a woman as in
creating a man. If he makes badness a necessity and bribes to silence
her moral sense, designed to call him to order, why may not the
"weaker vessel" plot to upset the stronger?
Inspired
by intuitive reason, this reform is also guided to its object by the
light of experience. History, which is at once "a record of the
past, interpretation of the present, and prophecy of the future,"
brings inductive evidence of what we have deduced from essential
truth; that since woman is more intuitive and moral than man, her
entrance into politics is guarantee of increased order and
cleanliness. A few generations back literature was so obscene that an
old book can hardly be trusted, without expurgation, in the hands of
youth. The advent of woman as a writer swept the realm of letters
clean of that infection, and made decency the first requisite of
authorship. It is thought Shakespeare's elevated conception of
feminine character was sensibly influenced by the fact that he wrote
when Elizabeth sat upon the English throne. Be that as it may,
Portia, Desdemona and Imogen heralded the sovereignty of woman on the
stage, which has made the theatre a powerful auxiliary to reform.
Twenty years ago many good Americans thought novel reading sinful;
the appearance of "Uncle Tom's Cabin" consecrated it a
pleasurable duty, set clergymen to writing stories and quickened
courts and senates to memorable acts of justice. The country store,
with its nightly gathering of local orators, was a scene of vulgar
filth until woman stood behind the counter. The ladies' room at
railroad depots, how different from the gentlemen's room, where one
would suppose cattle congregate, though cattle do not need spittoons.
Statistics of temperance societies show many male drunkards to one
female, and the records of courts a fearful superabundance of manhood
depravity. Telegraph operators stole money and profaned the wires
with vile messages; when girls were put in, the receipts of cash
increased and obscenity ceased. Celibate priesthoods, monkeries and
nunneries have been the scandal of the church of all ages.
The
precious geniuses, the beardless barbarians of colleges, "out of
whom they make ministers to guide and govern us, tread under foot
law, and repeal all the commandments, until girls enter to compete
for the laurels of scholarship, and tame these "savage sons of
God." Western colleges, to most of which both sexes are
admitted, are clearly superior in moral discipline to their celibate
elders of the East. Said Horace Mann of the one his name has made
illustrious, "We have the most orderly, sober, diligent,
exemplary institution in the country. We passed through last term,
and are more than half through the present, without my having to make
a single entry of any misdemeanor in our record book; not a case of
any serious discipline. There is no rowdyism in the village, no
nocturnal rampages making night hideous. All is quiet and peaceful;
and the women of our village feel the presence of our students, when
met in the streets in the evening, to be a protection rather than an
exposure." Commenting on these and other facts a writer says:
"Male students were first called gentlemen at Antioch." It
is needless to adduce further evidence to show the right way to be
the safe way. Woman's enfranchisement will renovate public affairs
quite as soon as men are ready for it; and much private dirty linen
is to be overhauled in the great political washing-day near at hand.
With an ideal object and courage to work towards it, her arrival in
literature, theatres, churches, schools or business brings
reformation. As a bevy of girls were playing under my window, and one
slip of womanhood put her saucy foot on a mutual right, the others
scattered screaming "I'll tell mother, I'll tell mother."
it seemed childish, but there was deep wisdom in the method of
reconciliation, for "an ounce of mother is worth a pound of
clergy," and tons of statesmen. Natural equity, whose lawgiver
is love, has foreordained that the same free and equal meeting of the
sexes which inspires private order and ineffable enjoyment will
insure public rectitude in political action.
The
recognition of woman's personality, though not regarded by any one as
a cure for all evils, will be a renovating tendency, an entrance into
new fields of ethics and experiences yet unexplored. Statesmen and
even ministers of religion now frankly confess that they dare not
voice their deepest convictions in public, but have two sets of
morals, one for the closet and one for the street. Government helps
reform chiefly by getting out of its way, does right from
"necessity," wrong from choice; deity seems about the most
impotent being known, while the devil has full swing, and wins,
except here and there, when he builds his badness "up so high it
topples down to the other side," and makes a sort of goodness.
judged by the records of legislation thus far, men are made of the
"queerest dregs of chaos ever churned up" into sentient
form. The fact that for centuries the have had representative rulers
of some kind, proves that mere voting will not enact order. But the
hand which denies women the ballot shuts the college and filches her
earnings. Since a disfranchised class have less power of redress on
account of that disability, the Labor Reform League puts her right to
vote side by side with the claim of service to its reward. We thereby
do not solve the labor question, but impanel a more impartial jury to
try it. Not good will or votes regulate wages, but supply and demand,
now generally overruled by the inequitable custom which allows one to
take from another the largest possible value for the least possible
return, provided he keeps out of jail. Since employers have preferred
to speculate on their suffering necessities rather than concede their
natural right to self-supporting independence, to equal pay for equal
work with men, the few trades women have entered and mastered are so
crowded that they must submit to the terms offered or surrender their
places to more destitute applicants knocking at the door. We do not
agree with the prevalent infidelity to right which affirms this
dependence natural, and poverty of workers a "necessary evil,"
but summon a new judge into court-Equity. For seventy years
one-eightieth part of the American people ruled our States with the
iron rod of property in man; that form of political robbery is now
broken, but, through subtler methods, slaveholders survive, and North
and South get the earnings of labor more successfully than ever;
working women, because physically the weakest, being their most
deeply defrauded and helpless victims. Since one can justly take from
another only what he renders an equivalent for in labor cost, the
right to hold property he has not earned or received as the free
bequest of others' service is purely imaginary. Interest on money,
rent and profit, or dividends, are therefore inadmissible, except for
work done or risk incurred; and speculative gain, in all these forms,
we arraign as inherently sinful, and enforce the consequent duty of
its immediate abolition. In fixing the rate of interest, Wall street,
which bribes or browbeats government to do its will, fixes what
proportion of earnings shall go to capital and what to labor; fixes
the price of a house or calico dress, of a farm or a bunch of
matches, of the largest and minutest commodity, in the remotest
village of the Union. It is apparent, therefore, that the beneficent
law of supply and demand has not free play, but is perverted from
natural courses, and made to bring grist to the speculator's mill. A
few financiers in New York and London, Paris and Berlin, controlling
money, the representative of property, control the material destinies
of mankind, and hold the laboring classes of all nations in wretched
vassalage. The parent fraud of this gigantic system is the piratical
principle that one may take from another what he does not render an
equivalent for, incarnate in the government monopoly, the political
usurpation which, determining by force the nature and amount of
currency makes free money a penal offence. This is the first great
wrong the labor movement has risen to overthrow, and, with woman's
heart and vote on the right side of the battle, we are sure to win.
If servant girls, plow boys and gravel tossers are with us in a moral
issue, Wall street and Washington must come round. The election asks,
what think ye of government? The ballot is a reply to that question,
the symbol at once of opinion and power, capable of immense service
to labor, peace, marriage and other reforms, though now controlled by
parties who have stolen the livery of progress to serve retrogression
in. Since to rule woman without her consent is tyranny, and every
concession may be recalled unless the ballot forbids, we assert her
right to this weapon of defence and would inscribe on the flag of
authority the noble motto of St. Simon: "To each according to
capacity, to all according to their work."
"But,"
says a gentle wife to this feminine rebellion breaking into her
luxurious home, "I have all the rights I want, why come here to
disturb our peace?" And the robust, tender husband, after they
have spent years to construct a temple of mutual rights, thinks it a
pity that like "the house which Jack built," the whole
thing should tumble now. Notwithstanding the tyrannic advantage man
now holds, to the honor of human nature, there are homes where he
scorns to use it, where love is law, reason rules, "none command
and none obey. " Yet comparatively few are so fortunate in their
partners as this contented wife, while vast and increasing numbers
are not married, and, under existing laws, can never be. From Maine,
New Hampshire, and other States; from the Canadas and beyond the
seas, girls disgusted with or starved out of household service, go to
factories; thence to the clothing marts of cities; thence the path
thither strewn with the diseased, the dying and the dead, such is the
reluctance of nature they crowd the swiftly descending ways of
prostitution! And though the average length of life there is but four
years, statistics show that the "social evil" is less
destructive to woman's physical beauty and vitality than the labor
system as now organized. The drift of girls (and most of these are
Americans), from household and factory life to these whirlpools of
vice, shows, at least, a hope of bettering their condition in that
direction; and many are known to write back to their friends that
they rather die there than return to what they fled from. The average
life of slaves on cotton plantations was seven years, in rice fields
five years; the recital of these facts roused Northern indignation
and created a great political party to put down the bad thing. But
our laws and customs to-day actually destroy more girls and women
than slave codes murdered Negroes then! How long must American girls
be crucified, on the fiery cross of self-destruction, to save this
people? Does not the heart of this contented wife yearn to help us
right the wrongs? Her own dear girl, left penniless and an orphan,
may have to enter the struggle for life alone; will she not arm her
for the conflict? Will she not save her darling boy from the savage
custom of presuming to rule the one being whom he should respect as
an equal?
Besides,
women can afford to be indifferent to nothing which degrades women;
the sad fact that "the contentment of slaves renders objection
to liberty possible," makes it a more imperative duty to bestir
ourselves to see justice done. Living in a world of petty details
engenders narrow habits of mind, and the bounding aspirations of
youth are killed out in the dull round of restricted life. "It
might have been" is written over the tomb of many buried hopes.
To think slavery liberty and dependence an honor; to be satisfied
"with what we have rather than with what we want," that is
the calamity. Speculative thought has ranged from asserting the
absolute non-existence of mind, save as a form or function of matter,
to a belief in the merely phenomenal existence of matter dependent on
a sentient immaterial entity, mind, which, wresting from philosophy a
recognition of its distinct independent being here, now comes back
from the other side of death to say it lives there also. So woman
from the dead level of oriental materialism, quickened by Judean
religion, Grecian thought, Roman justice, German insight, and Saxon
common sense, has risen to assert an original right to life. He who
denies or ignores her claim must be something less than a man; while
she who goes forth to proclaim it, is backed by the finest impulses
of civilization, and gives new evidence of an ever-living and
redeeming spiritual presence.
Our
male objector who thinks it bad husbandry to harrow up wedded
contentment with these exciting themes, that a strong-minded woman is
an intellectual tower of Pisa, under the shadow of which it were
unsafe to live, forgets that domestic, like political order, rests on
consent, not coercion. A large and increasing majority of applicants
for divorce are women; *
intelligent, sensitive natures decline proposals or accept them as a
dreadful necessity to secure bread and a home; marriage is on the
decline, partly for its being too expensive, but chiefly because it
hinders free enterprise, and is repulsive to personal sanctity; from
this one slave state emancipation did not reach there are more
fugitives than ever fled from chattel bondage; men sound an alarm
that the institution is imperilled, while women are in open revolt,
or silently, patiently biding their time such phenomena indicate
deep-seated disease, whose infection spreads to every member of the
body politic. Those who would send the fugitives back, tighten the
laws and double the guards, are little aware of what a moral
earthquake they are reading the riot act to. The old notion that
slavery was the corner-stone of the republic was not more absurd and
monstrous than the idea that woman's legal suppression is the
corner-stone of the family. The question is not whether reform will
disturb existing relations, but whether any system should continue if
that system invades essential right and public interest. The simple
fact that she was not consulted in framing the marriage contract, to
which from the origin of society she has been forced to submit, alone
justifies the woman's rights agitation; for all admit that contracts
are morally binding only when parties thereto have a free voice in
determining their conditions. This institution, for whose safety male
keepers are so alarmed, now stands on usurped irresponsible power,
and until reconstructed on the basis of equality and justice,
rebellion against it is a duty. Brigham Young, who assumes woman's
natural servility as a justification of his concubinal system, is
consistent—giving her the ballot there is only a trick to divert
attention from the settled policy to crush out all dissent by
orthodox violence but monogamist objectors seem unaware that she must
go back to polygamy, or forward to liberty. One cannot always remain
suspended between something and nothing. To say the wife "belongs"
to the husband, or the husband to the wife, implies ownership and
calls for the deed of purchase. In denying her equality he herds her
with brutes; claims himself to be a freeman, but insists that she
shall live under rude codes of the dark ages. He lives in the
nineteenth century, she in the ninth, and he puts a thousand years
between himself and his lady-love in disfranchising her. We do not
make love by statute and cannot unmake it that way. The law of
cohesion between souls is as natural and inevitable as between atoms
and globes. The fascinating intelligence at whose feet, in his truest
moment, the male lover lays all; the qualities of devotion,
fortitude, self-sacrifice all bow to, in the gravest epochs of
life—at the altar, the cradle and the tomb—will assert a
regulating control if allowed free play. The true nuptial knot is in
the heart, not on the house top. In drawing-room or convention,
nursery or senate, sewing circle or market-place, it matters little
where thought ranges if light spreads and souls are born again.
What
is apparent in the outer, material phases of life man inhabits, is so
much more deeply true of its inner, spiritual realms, native to
woman, that her emancipation will prove, not a source of discord, but
the beginning of agreement. Had the wits of sham conservatives aimed
at extreme badness, they could not have invented a scheme more
fruitful, in conflict and immorality, than the present regime. The
grave apprehensions of stately editors and divines, who think it
unsafe to break every yoke, and obey good rather than evil, like the
anxiety of slave masters for the results of Negro liberty, would be
more noteworthy if they had the merit of disinterested intelligence.
So far are we from ignoring the potential force of the sexual
passions, or undervaluing the claims of maternity and offspring, that
the originators of the woman's rights reform were the first to give
those themes serious and intelligent consideration. Since this
question touches the quick of life, goes to the foundations of order
and being; precisely because its subject is woman, not a weak man,
because the tragedy of motherhood is fraught with momentous interests
to herself and the race, must she have free right to live and move
independent of finite dictation. The maternal instinct is impaired by
the very method now frantically clung to. Statistics prove that
foeticide is not generally induced by pressure on the means of
subsistence, but rather originates in causes attendant on dainty
caretaking and luxury. Domestic animals often kill and devour their
young; petted hens while sitting chip and eat their eggs.
Child-murder is comparatively rare in poor countries like Ireland and
among laboring people of all nations; while in Paris and New York, by
the "upper" classes, it is increasingly practiced; mothers
often provoking abortion to preserve their physical beauty, and
escape from the "home sphere" into the delirious whirl of
fashionable life. Dr. Storer shows*
that the practice of abortion, by the American women of Massachusetts
and New York, is so limiting the increase of population that it is
maintained chiefly by foreign immigration. The number and the
successes of abortionists is notorious; hardly a newspaper that does
not contain their open and printed advertisements, or a drug store
whose shelves are not crowded with nostrums publicly and unblushingly
displayed. The feminine instinct of these "womanly"
women—not strong-minded, and never seen in suffrage conventions—is
so Perverted that they seem unconscious of the crime to themselves
and society they are guilty of; and in selfish egotism rival even
those of the most luxurious cities of Europe and Asia, who,
subsisting on fugitive attachments, find in marriage a convenient
screen behind which to shelter their indiscretions. Our critics must
cease this wise nonsense which says to woman "Be Good," and
makes man the sample piece of what she is to copy from. It is high
time that the one most deeply interested in marriage and reproduction
should be consulted as a responsible partner; that the maker of men
should have free choice of materials, methods and conditions
wherewith to perfect her wondrous work.
Educating
her for service, not for show, pleasure or sacrifice merely, we must
first aim to make a woman, of whom the wife and mother will be, more
important, complete and attractive attributes than hitherto. But
education, which should develop strength, not cripple it, has been to
her, thus far, perversion. As man is trained to get money she is
trained to get married, adorned or distorted to suit the whims of a
destined master. If nature rebels she is damned to living burial as
an abandoned woman , an old maid"; if devoted, "constant,"
she has the honor to expire in flames of lust on the funeral pyre of
a husband morally dead though physically living. Nothing can exceed
the presumption, the devilish criminality, of such wretches as
Sickles and McFarland who, because they "love her,"
deliberately murder a wife's friend on the ground that to give her
aid and comfort is an "overt act" of treason to marriage.
Her natural right to be a mother or anything else, unless she first
gets herself a legal dictator, is yet to be conceded. But neither the
tyranny of law nor the merciless grasp of marital "rights"
will prevail against the steady advance of woman to equality and fair
play. "He that sitteth in the heavens shall laugh, the Lord
shall have them in derision"; governments, nations, races
perish, but liberty and love are immortal. The affection of the sexes
for each other, of parents for children, new every morning, fresh
every evening, and repeated every moment, overrules all other human
forces, defies all intrusive impertinence, and will outlive all
legislative dictation. The spiritual life which overflows and
interfuses these tenements of clay, now and forever, waits to ennoble
the most forlorn outcast if she will but believe and strive. Woman is
woman because tenderness, reason, love, intuition, beauty, the truly
feminine qualities, flow direct from infinite sources, and are not
reservoired exclusively in any male protector. Pecuniary not less
than political justice must be granted, for men cannot share the
privileges of free, honorable love until they cease to steal.
Marriage, not the subject under discussion, is foreign to the purpose
of this essay; it will come up in due time, but sufficient unto the
day is the good thereof It is desired now only to affirm woman's
natural, inalienable claim to that principle of common law,
everywhere conceded to man, which holds all persons innocent until
proved guilty; to share in the serviceable government which lifts up
the oppressed, in pulling down oppressors, and finds its chief
guarantee in popular freedom, and the imperishable sense of right.
Who says democracy will not justify itself in her as in him? If the
Goddess of Liberty is worthy of the imperial honor of a statue on the
dome of the Federal Capitol, she may enter ward rooms and town halls
as a voter. When the mailed hand of force is withdrawn, leaving woman
free like man to do wrong even at her own cost, to stand or fall on
her own merits, she will do well—in making love or laws, a loaf of
bread or an immortal being—just in proportion as responsibility is
recognized, intelligence enlarged and liberty inviolate. All hail,
Equality! Then indeed will moral regeneration begin, and social
concord be possible, when the sexes, meeting as intelligent beings,
mutually accountable to each other and to destiny, engaged
irretrievably to nothing but right, reason together on the issues of
life, and welcome its yet untried privileges.
The
male
"Has
no more subtle master under Heaven Than is the maiden passion for
a maid; Not only to keep down the base in him, But teach high
thought and amiable words, And courtliness and the desire of
fame, And love of truth and all that makes a man."
Woman
has no better friends incarnate than men whom she can freely love,
respect and trust; and no worse enemy than him who, for any purpose
whatever, would subordinate her being to his. Liberated, self-loyal
womanhood is to be the connecting link between isolation and society,
the "guardian angel of our associated destiny." Both sexes
need to be profoundly converted to truth and honor; for liberty is
not the goddess we read of, but male, incontinent, libertine when not
overruled by an intelligent moral sense. Rights obtained should impel
to corresponding duties; and free, intelligent inter dependence
making love relations less formal and promiscuous, but more select,
intimate and refining. Each belongs to self and others, one being
only half man without woman, and the other only half woman without
man. The family retains its place, in the hope of unity and honesty,
at least in a narrow circle; enlightened liberty will eliminate its
defects and universalize its merits. As the old spinning-wheel and
power loom have given place to great factories; so the single
tenement, with its cooking drudgery, washtubs and neglected children,
will disappear in reorganized housekeeping, the scientific
classification of woman's industrial and maternal functions. Be just
and fear not; what love has joined, can be put asunder only by
destroying the conditions out of which love springs and flourishes.
Whether marriage is induced by affinity of likes or unlikes, the
subtle attraction of essential worth and beauty, the fascination of
form and touch, the base allurement of money, tyranny of
circumstances, or carnal coalition from mere proximity; whether
society rests on a combination of opposing or concurrent forces,
everything good is to be gained, and nothing but bad lost, in the new
departure involved in woman's enfranchisement.
That
it will bring revolutionary and startling changes is evident; but,
knowing in whom and what they have believed, new seas of agitation,
however tempestuous, have no perils to those who sail by the compass
of right. in the conflict of thought with idolatry, feudalism,
priestcraft, political and chattel slaveholders, the hearts of strong
men often failed them for fear; yet, impelled by the inward might of
faith, through ignorance, superstition, avarice, infidelity and
cowardice, the moral sense steadily gropes its way toward order,
system, empire. The same law which holds ocean in its bed and planets
in their courses will inspire these two mysterious sovereignties we
call man and woman to transact their gayest and gravest affairs, with
no jar or hurt, but mutual assistance to each other, and the general
welfare. That widely looked-for personage, yet to rise from this
agitation, like Venus from surf of the Grecian sea, the coming woman,
no feminine man or masculine opposite, with greater physical vigor of
finer fibre, will bring impressive beauty, melting tenderness,
ethereal grace, mental force, moral rectitude, such as the
exhaustless sources of being yearn to incarnate. That passion now
thought incapable of analysis, uncertain in its origin, accidental in
its course, inspiring alike the darkest and brightest experiences,
replete with ecstasy and tragedy, love, inherently pure, ineffably
beneficent, is destined to make inclination one with duty, liberty
the bride of order, and justice the security of citizens and the life
of states.
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